There is a ‘fine line’ between research and spying. A collaborator favours the former and the tough negotiator the latter.
Let’s get started with a checklist of questions to which you must identify all the possible answers.
The Start of all Preparation
- What is this negotiation about?
- Who should be party to this negotiation?
- What would motivate each party to join the negotiation?
- What deadlines are there? If none, how can a deadline be agreed (i.e. negotiated) amongst all concerned?
- What are the main tangible needs and wants of each party (including your own)?
- What is known about prior negotiations by and with the negotiators and their organizations?
What to Research about the Other Parties
- Who (specific) will represent them?
- What are their (probable) authority levels?
- How can you build a rapport and trust with these individuals?
- What cultural issues might arise? How can/should you respond?
- What are their probable success criteria for the negotiation?
- What (do you think) will be their non-negotiables?
- What are all their possible tangible needs and wants – for themselves and those they represent?
- Prioritise those needs and wants – which do you think are most important to them? A simple approach is to give each a high, medium or low priority.
- Estimate how much you think it will cost you to provide each of these needs and wants?
- What are their emotional needs and wants? Think about both the negotiators themselves and those they represent. This should lead to:
What Negotiating Style are They Likely to Adopt?
- How might their emotions be responded to?
- What tactics might they deploy and how might you best respond?
- What would motivate them to make an agreement?
- How reasonable are their needs and wants?
- What will they do or what will happen if an agreement is not reached? This can give you a clear understanding of how powerful they might feel.
What to Prepare About Yourself
- Who (specifically) are you representing?
- What is your authority level?
- What are your success criteria for the negotiation?
- What will you not negotiate on?
- What are all your possible tangible needs and wants – for you and those you represent? Think big! Even if you know they cannot meet a need or want, do not discard it at this stage.
- Prioritise your needs and wants – which are of high, medium or low importance?
- Estimate how much you think it will cost the other parties to provide each of these needs and wants.
- What emotional needs and wants do you, and those you represent, have? Be totally honest in answering this question:
What Impact are These Emotions Likely to have on Your Behaviour, Attitude and Style?
- How might these emotions be responded to?
- What tactics are you going to use and how might they respond?
- What is your motivation – and that of those you represent – to make an agreement?
- How reasonable are all your needs and wants? (be honest!)
- What will you do or what will happen if an agreement is not reached?